Men love masterbating. In surveys show that 99% of men masterbate, and over 85% of women masterbate.  Unfortunately, due to some shame it is usually it is done in secret,  in the bathroom before work, or maybe after the wife goes to bed.

Unfortunately, most men get into a fast routine when masterbating. I once did a sexuality course and the men had to discuss in front of the group how they masterbated. Now this was a bit confronting. Most men described their self pleasuring session as lasting 10mintue or so.

However, one gay guy put all the straight guys to shame. He descried his sessions as lasting over 1 hour. He used to play music and incense. He used masterbation to do into altered stated of consciousness. All the women on the course wished he was straight!

We tend to make love how we masterbate. Change how you approach masterbating and you will find your lovemaking changes. One can try new things in private self pleasuring first, before trying them in lovemaking. I feel it is important not to get too serious about a fun activity.

If you are getting bored with the basics of masterbation, then you should try some different male masterbation tips.